Appearances don't add up

By Sheryl-Lee Kerr

slkx@hotmail.com

 

 

 

SO there you are, trudging along the beach in your too-tight bathers,

the elastic around the legs - which you could have sworn fitted

comfortably last summer - now threatening a double amputation. The

universe, as a whole, is obviously looking at you and trying to hide

its mirth at your winterly bulges displayed before the world.

           

And, right about then, it suddenly hits you: you realise you can no

longer solve algebraic equations. This is a sad reality.

 

No, seriously.

           

For all those who ever wondered what bored psychiatrists in America

do, I have found the answer after weeks of half-hearted and not very

intensive efforts: they put people in bathers and ask them to sit for

maths tests. Yep, indeedy.

           

This latest absolutely-not-made-up-but-probably-should-be research,

from the University of Michigan, found, for women at least, that the

wearing of bathers is detrimental to one's mental health. They

couldn't think as well when they were feeling body-conscious. But put

the same women in sweaters and they blew their bather-impaired maths

test scores away.

           

Men, it may fascinate you to know, scored the same no matter what they

wore.

           

Lucky blokes. But I have long suspected this of men. As a general

rule, how men look just is not much of an issue for them as women. In

their minds, their daily dressing regime is complete once they have

sufficiently covered their undergarments so as to avoid violating any

major indecent-exposure laws.

 

I have observed that what men choose to wear comes down to two key factors (though, in a pinch, neither is essential) – the clobber is clean and it doesn't clash ... much.

 

After that, it's a quick look in the mirror for a shave and a cheeky

grin at the dashing lad smiling back, then out into the world they go.

 

In contrast, a woman's morning dressing ritual is more like a

loooong, pre-flight check list: the clothing is selected in advance, at which

time the outfit is prepped and readied for duty. Any jewellery is

precisely matched, rematched and crosschecked. Handbags are primed

and plumped. Make-up is placed in an easy access panel overhead or under a counter.

           

And women plan ahead for turbulence, too. Bad-hair days, sudden

eruptions of pimples - well, never fear, they have the heavy-duty

apparatus ready to be rolled on out across the tarmac, too.

           

The point is, even if the average woman survives her working week of

introspection, self-analysis and flawed reflections unscathed, by

the time she wiggles into her bathers I wouldn't be at all surprised if

most women were not in a lather of self-awareness. How a woman looks

really matters to her. I mean really.

           

So the ramifications of this hard-hitting survey are obvious: men are

living blissfully in Noddyland about their looks (half their luck).

And no more should hordes of women go to beaches to hone their calculus.

           

Life can be so unkind.

 

© Sheryl-Lee Kerr & The Advertiser, 13 OCT 1998.